new here

topic posted Wed, October 27, 2004 - 8:51 AM by  Scruffy
New here - hello.

Scruffy
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Scruffy
  • Re: new here

    Sat, November 6, 2004 - 2:46 PM
    hiya Scruffy! How's life treating you?
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      Mon, November 8, 2004 - 3:23 AM
      it has it's moments.
      :)
      And how are you faring Abi?
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        Tue, December 14, 2004 - 7:56 PM
        generally aok. procrastinating . . . I need to study for my final on Friday, but alas, something (I can't think of what) is holding me back. I'm also contemplating my return to Boston for two weeks on Saturday. While i can't wait to see family and friends, I feel a little freaked out by so much non-queer time. . .
        • Re: new here

          Mon, December 20, 2004 - 5:16 PM
          ah yes..the no-queer time. :) I understand.
          You have support from the 'fam' no matter where you are.

          how did the final go? Share an interesting detail, real or make believe. This tribe is quiet and it shold be roaring...
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            Re: new here

            Tue, December 21, 2004 - 5:58 PM
            rrrrrrrrrrrrrooooooooooooooaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!


            I'm new here too. (So nu?)

            Where do y'all live?

            Miriam
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              Re: new here

              Sun, December 26, 2004 - 12:08 AM
              hello. i'm new too.

              -Ari
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                Sun, December 26, 2004 - 12:04 PM
                Hi Ari,
                Just read your profile. totally fascinating. I'd love to learn more info about your CAPS work. do you enjoy it? it kind of reminds me of the work that m'bud alix is doing at st james infirmary/ucsf with sex workers. . . Go you!

                Random question: why do you like avocados? Living here in SF has totally made me rethink my hatred o'avocados. I'm trying to appreciate them, esp as a vegetarian, but so far, it's just not happening. Any suggestions?

                Hope to catch up with y'all soon.
                Peace out,
                Abi
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                  Re: new here

                  Sun, December 26, 2004 - 12:50 PM
                  hey abi,
                  CAPS is actually really closely connected to St. James Infirmary because we're part of the same network/working with the same population. the part I'm involved with is TRANS (Transgender Resources and Neighborhood Space). It's a community center with support groups, workshops, a shower/place to hang out/resource closet and it's also a place where a lot of research goes on that informs the resources that we provide. i'm working on a project that looks at drug/hiv risk behaviors among MtF trans women sex workers. It's good work to be doing, very draining, very rewarding. I work with awsome people who are all really passionate about the work we're doing, are all a part of the trans community to some degree, plus a lot of them are also recovered users/sex workers. It's also cool because while I'm mainly working on the research part of the program, I also help do workshops/support groups and definitely feel like I'm in the thick of it since my workspace is basically also the drop in space. there's never a dull moment at TRANS. so i do enjoy it, but it's also a job where I need to decompress for an hour or so after work...plus I can't say enough about the importance of the support of the co-workers. there have been days where I didn't feel the support, either because there weren't very many people working that day, or because they were bogged down with stuff of their own...this is heavy stuff we're dealing with on a regular basis.

                  hmmm...i do love avocados. I eat them mashed up with salt and spread on things, I throw them in salads, mmmmm. yum. what have you had so far that hasn't worked for you?
                  cheers, ari
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              Sun, December 26, 2004 - 11:50 AM
              I live in San Francisco most of the time. I was born in Boston, MA and am here in the Boston area for the next week or so. How about you?
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              Re: new here

              Sun, December 26, 2004 - 4:02 PM
              i'm in the mission, san fran.

              I think I met you at karma a few months ago actually. you look very familiar.

              -Ari
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                Re: new here

                Mon, December 27, 2004 - 12:18 PM
                Yup, via Justin, correct?

                Miriam
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                  Re: new here

                  Mon, December 27, 2004 - 1:18 PM
                  yeah! nice to see you. online.
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                    Re: new here

                    Wed, December 29, 2004 - 12:28 AM
                    Gracias! Tu tambiƩn.
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            Sun, December 26, 2004 - 11:48 AM
            the final sucked, to put it mildly. It was the hardest test I have ever taken (that I can remember at least) and when I turned in my final to the prof at the front o'class he said that he would give me a chocolate kiss (he was giving out chocolate to each person who turned in an exam) because he could tell from the hickeys on my neck that I *LIKED* kisses. He winked. I felt so nasty.

            Being here in Boston is aok. I get to see my family, "celebrate" Christmas (I saw the "Paper Clips" film with my parents, has anyone seen it?) and bond with some of my best friends.

            Thanks for reminding me o'"fam" support, Scruffy. It's appreciated. How was your holiday?
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              Sun, December 26, 2004 - 3:57 PM
              my weekend wasnt bad - my father is catholic and i spent the day with his mom and sister. by accident i ended up having a very good moment that i had been meaning to have with a good friend.
              then gathered at a friend's house with other people trickling back from scenes involving various levels of drama. then we got to examine someone's art and passed around an alex gray book.

              tonight we organize around January 20th - back to the grindstone.
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              Re: new here

              Mon, December 27, 2004 - 12:21 PM
              That professor's comment is repulsive and really out of line. Ewwww. Hope you did okay on the final in spite of all that.

              Miri
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          Re: new here

          Sun, December 26, 2004 - 1:02 PM
          I can commiserate with anxiety about non-queer time and family. the holidays are the worst time for queer peeps because not only do we feel alienated with family for being queer but on top of that there's all the high pressure of the season/bad family dynamics etc. I barely survived. Luckily I got to go and celebrate afterwords with friends who I can just as easily call my family. so you must be there now. how is it going?
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            Fri, January 28, 2005 - 1:22 AM
            it is so ab fab to be home! back in beautiful, ok, rainy sf. I ended up ace-ing that class which is great but now I'm not sure quite how to proceed. I mean the prof was icky but sexual harrassment? I'm not sure.

            I really loved seeing my buds back in boston. new years kinda sucked, tho. the party at my bud's house was fab, in that it was so great to see everyone. I had another icky situation that night, with a boy I thought was a friend who got all kinds of drunk and felt me up, among other not so nice moves. I dropped him to the ground, which was good, as I always love sticking up for myself, but I am sorry that it happened. He's sorry too, supposedly, but I'm not taking his calls (he's just not worth my time, right now).

            Glad you got some friend-al bonding in there, Ari. I saw so many folks in my weeks in Boston; it was a blast to rekindle friendships over crazy veggie meals, silly films, trips to NYC and a snow storm. :)

            Two icky male power trips in the last few months are two too many. I'm rebelling!

            Good Night everyone! Hope others had a fun winter/holiday season. :)
  • Re: new here

    Sun, October 9, 2005 - 11:23 AM
    hi -- transguy, grad student in jewish studies, working on thesis, inclined toward men and people who identify as masculine, saying hello and shana tovah!

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